DEAR MISS MANNERS: My daughter deemed my response to an incessantly chattering office cleaner rude.
“D” is a younger person who cleans our office. They routinely eat lunch at the same time I do. I have listened to this individual chatter nonstop for half an hour, detailing to three different people the salad they ate last week, or the woes they have with a reprehensible roommate. I’ve seen this person continue blathering even after a victim walked away from the nonstop, inane chit-chat.
The other day, D asked me how I was, and I responded, “Fine, thanks.” I didn’t reciprocate the question, because I needed to get back to work. My daughter believes I should have asked how D was, then extracted myself with an apology and a “I need to get back to work.”
Which one of us has the more courteous response?
GENTLE READER: Let’s call them Polite Response B and Polite Response A. Although Miss Manners finds no fault starting with B, it becomes even more blameless when A has already been tried by you — and abused by D’s nattering on about C, E, F and G.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have a best friend of 27 years, and I’m getting very annoyed with her.
Miss Manners: I want her to stop her disrespectful talk about my illness
Miss Manners: Mom insists on clinking 15 times for each toast
Miss Manners: What are the rules about revealing interesting facts about friends?
Miss Manners: My neighbor sat and watched me. Was I rude in confronting him?
Miss Manners: A lock on the office restroom could have prevented this unpleasant encounter
Every time I invite her to dinner or to an event, she expects me to pay for everything. She has gone as far as asking me for a loan, for groceries, etc.
Being the nice person I am, I will lend her the money and buy her groceries, if I am able. The problem is that she will not repay me. When I confront her, she gets very angry and tells me she is in no position financially to pay me back.
She has a really good job and makes really good money. I am a single mother with only my income, which is not a lot. There was one time that I asked her for gas money, and she went ballistic. She said she doesn’t help anybody financially, then stopped talking to me.
She moved in with her sister, pays only $300 in rent and is financially supporting her 27-year-old …read more
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