I’ve been cheating on my wife for 10 years and it’s made me a better husband
All this makes me very grateful to be entrusted with a person’s loved one and to give them a positive last memory so they can pay their final respects.
If anyone reading this has suddenly thought this could be for them, I’d say go for it. It’s extremely rewarding and you get to be creative.
It keeps me grounded and mindful of impermanence.